Should our love for each other stem from our shallow appearance when that is, put generously, our best ten percent? I am wretchedly imperfect, though I do well to cover it with my pride...so who am I to judge you? For judgment without complete wisdom and perfection is a hypocracy. Love comes only from selflessness and true joy from compassion. Therefore let us bear our faults before all the world and meet our failures hand in hand. Let us seek humility and maybe then God's love, through us, would be much easier to see.